Well said john. You are right in saying we are in their heads and in many ways we have won. Still the damage they have inflicted on all of us still remains. Many wounds to be healed, many broken spirits to be fixed. Many battles have been won and lost but the war remains to be won.
Many years ago when I was new to this board I was told the hurt caused by the wt. will remain with me forever. I now realize this is true but you can turn all that hurt into something good in your life. Making sure everyone you know learns how harmful all cults are and how to recognize what a cult is. Taking off your cult personality and putting on your authentic personality. To me this is how the war is won. Take care. Still Totally ADD